“A flower has fallen into the water

Its petals spread wide to show their beauty to the world

It is caught by the falling tide

And carried to the ocean

Of our God”

(Maori tangi pouri)

Part of our human need to make sense of life and death, is looking for ways to mark the death of a loved one. Flowers at a funeral, and later, to place on a grave, are all part of this.

I’ve noticed a growing trend in our village churchyard to have plants and bulbs growing freely either on or round a grave. They are symbols of the cycle of life and hope for new beginnings.

Sometimes it’s not possible to regularly visit and tend a loved one’s grave. I have often spoken with bereaved clients who have found a favourite plant or tree to pot up in their garden. It becomes a tender reminder of their beloved person, bringing solace in its continuing growth and flourishing. A focal point for loving memories.

Silk sympathy flowers can be a comfort to the bereaved, a simple heartfelt reminder that you are thinking of them and that their loved one is remembered with affection and respect.  Placed in the home, the flowers will bring sweetness and small joys every day. This can be on a shelf, a mantel, in a quiet corner – or in the garden. You can choose favourite flowers and colours, irrespective of the season. The ultra realism of quality silk flowers make them an affordable and sustainable option.

Silk flowers also do surprisingly well outside. I spray them with stuff that protects the petals and colours from UV light, so they stay bright and vibrant for ages.